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Cheating Wives and Husband-women... !
Just about everyone
out there has a story about infidelity, either in their
own relationships or marriages, or in among their family
and friends. The stories are invariably filled with pain
and loss. Given that the costs are so great, and the
risks so high, why are so many driven to cheat?
Research suggests that the causes are evolutionary. For
men, this is easy to see. Men are driven to procreate
with as many females as possible. For females, the
reasons are more complex. However, a clue can be gained
from the discovery that women are the most likely to
cheat on their husbands on the day of the month that
they are most fertile. |
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This suggests a two-sided
motivation for women that has long been suspected by
researchers. Women want two things for their
offspring - the best genes possible, and security
for them to grow to adulthood safely. For the
latter, women find and marry a nice, stable,
employed man who can provide for a family. But they
may cheat with the strapping, handsome, but broke
bad-boy in order to get the best genes possible.
It's the evolutionary equivalent of having your cake
and eating it, too.
Still, human have many instinctive urges that are
routinely put aside for the sake of a civilized
society. It stands to reason that the urge to cheat
may be put aside as well. But how? The consequences
are terrible and often life-long, yet they have not
been sufficient to deter it. Research suggests that
adultery is in fact on the rise in America.
Perhaps the best solution is a cultural one. We
would do well to study cultures where the rates of
adultery are low, and see what they have to teach us
about holding our families together.
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