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7 ways to approach Women !
Approaching women is not that tough as you think.
You just need confidence and should know to use the
right words. Here are a few things you should know
before approaching the girl you just met and you are
attracted to.
1. The first most important
thing is to take it easy. If you get all
jittery and scared and think that if you don't get this
girl, it is going to be the end of your life, then you
will never really get to know her. So be cool and don't
overstep your bounds. If you succeed, its great and if
not then move on. Don't care about the outcome so much
that it will make you nervous and you will spoil every
chance that you ever had.
2. Be confident.
People show confidence |
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(or lack of it) in a thousand
small ways; your posture, the way you talk, a lack
of waiver in your voice, eye contact, body position,
placement of the hands, etc., etc. All of these are
critical and create an impression. Your impression
should always be one of confidence.
3. Smile. This is the best
part. Your smile can mean a lot. Smiles
can easily look like nervousness. Therefore you need
to know how good your smile is. You should practice
this in front of the mirror until you feel
comfortable with it and until it looks natural.
4. Take the conversation
somewhere. Pickup lines are no good and
will take you nowhere. Your conversation should be
intelligent and meaningful. That doesn't mean that
you start discussing politics or football with her.
You're trying to get to know the woman in the
quickest, most direct way possible. Thus, get her
talking about herself! Use this as a discovery of
both who she is, and what you need to do to move the
conversation on.
5. Listen to her.
This is an important part of the conversation. Just
don't keep talking on and on. You need to listen to
what she says and focus on her. Look into her eyes.
6. Close. You
have to ask for what you want. Don't wait for her to
do the thing for you. Far too many men expect the
woman to close for them; waiting for her to give you
her number. Instead, you need to be the one to ask
for it. Then, when you do, be direct, calm,
confident, and don't ask her - tell her. Say
something like, "Here, write your home phone number
down on this paper and I'll call you sometime to
continue this conversation."
7.
Leave! You
always want to be the one to end the conversation.
Don't over-stay your welcome. Close, and make your
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