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You are friends and
you enjoy your friendship. You behave with each other as you do
with your other friends. One day you find that you have begun
having different feelings for your friend. You like him more
than a friend and are developing romantic love. What should you
do?
You want to tell your friend about your feelings. But you are
not very sure about them yourself. Have you really crossed the
relationship of friendship and developed romantic love? You are
thinking about that and the more you think the more you get
confused. Emotions are like that. They can play havoc with us.
After lot of deliberation, you have decided that the feelings of
love are true and figments of your imagination. Should you tell
your friend? What if he/she does not reciprocate? What will
happen to the friendship?
This is a difficult situation. You do not wish to sacrifice your
friendship, but if your friend does not reciprocate that will
happen. And there is no way of finding his/her feelings
indirectly. You have to do it yourself. What should be done?
Please ask. Please tell about your feelings and ask if your
feelings are reciprocated. If yes, you are lucky.
If not, let the
friendship suffer. You cannot continue loving someone without
finding out your friend's feelings. That will be much more
painful.
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